Ruby Mae Sidle

FatherHilton Sidle
MotherMyrtle Elsie Sackett (1891-1943)
Birth25 March 1909, Winfield, Cowley County, KansasG,1,2
Death10 June 20031,2
Marriage15 August 1925, Seattle, King County, Washington StateGWilliam Benjamin Hopkins3
Marriage30 November 1968, Wichita County, TexasGCharles Truett Pittman4,5
Ruby Mae Sidle, daughter of Hilton Sidle and Myrtle Elsie Sackett, was born in Winfield, Cowley County, KansasG, on 25 March 1909.1,2 She died aged 94 on 10 June 20031,2 and was buried at Hope Cemetery, Henrietta, Clay County, TexasG.6 She married first in Seattle, King County, Washington StateG, on 15 August 1925, William Benjamin Hopkins, son of James C Hopkins and Luvinia Belle McBride.3 William was born in Ellis County, TexasG, on 23 December 1896.6 He died aged 63 in Wichita Falls, Wichita County, TexasG, on 2 February 1960 and was buried at Hope Cemetery, Henrietta, Clay County, TexasG.6,7 She married second in Wichita County, TexasG, on 30 November 1968, Charles Truett Pittman, son of John David Pittman and Docia Lucille Davis.4,5 Charles was born in Red River County, TexasG, on 7 March 1909.6 He died aged 83 in Wood County, TexasG, on 17 August 1992 and was buried at Crestview Memorial Park, Wichita FallsG.6
     In 1910 Ruby was living at 1521 East Eleventh Avenue, Winfield, Cowley CountyG, in the household of her parents Hilton and Myrtle, and was recorded in the census as Ruby M Sidle, aged one and born in Kansas.8
     In 1920 she was living at East 10th Avenue, WinfieldG, in the household of her mother Myrtle and stepfather Ora Finney, and was recorded as Ruby Sidle, aged ten.9
     Ruby's marriage in 1925 to William Hopkins was the subject of a police investigation after Ruby's mother Myrtle claimed that she, Myrtle, was married to William. She brought charges against William, leading to his arrest. Myrtle and William had been living as man and wife but her claim that they were legally married was evidently without foundation. Ruby and William Hopkins remained married until his death in 1960.
     In 1930 she was living at 202½ West Harrison, Guthrie, Logan County, OklahomaG, in the household of her husband William, 34, a chef, and was recorded as Ruby Mae Hopkins, aged 21. Living with them was their daughter Norma, aged one.10
     In 1940 she was living at 7221 Southwest, Maplewood, St Louis County, MissouriG, in the household of her husband William, 42, a clerk at a highway construction company, and was recorded as Ruby Hopkins, aged 31. Living with them were their children, Norma, 11, and Estelle, aged nine.11
     In 1940 Ruby's mother Myrtle was living with her third husband Oliver Tendick just a few miles away in St Louis, MissouriG, perhaps a sign that they had settled their differences.
Ruby Mae (Sidle) Hopkins Pittman (1909–2003), Hope Cemetery, Henrietta, Texas
(Src: Find a Grave, Pat Mitchell)
William Benjamin Hopkins (1896–1960), Hope Cemetery, Henrietta, Texas
(Src: Find a Grave, Pat Mitchell)

Children of Ruby Mae Sidle and William Benjamin Hopkins

Children who are or may be living are not shown.

Cafe Man Elopes With Stepdaughter
     Declared to have eloped with his own stepdaughter, William B. Hopkins, restaurant man, of 5202 Ballard Ave., was being sought by law enforcement agencies throughout the state Saturday.
     He left his home hurriedly Saturday at 5 a.m. in company with his wife's 16-year-old daughter by a former marriage, Ruby Seidle, according to neighbors.
     The mother and wife, Mrs Myrtle Hopkins, called at the prosecuting attorney's office within a few hours of the disappearance of her husband and daughter and became the complaining witness to a warrant charging Hopkins with contributing to the delinquency of a juvenile. Police officials also were notified, and a widespread search was in progress Saturday afternoon.

Seattle Union Record, Seattle, Washington, 15 Aug 1925, p 1

Marriage Licenses
     William B. Hopkins, 27; Ruby Sidle, 19, both of Seattle.

Seattle Union Record, Seattle, Washington, 17 & 18 Aug 1925, p 7

Bride's Mother Says Bridegroom Belongs to Her!
Both Women Insist They Are Wives of William D. Hopkins When He Is Arrested by the Police

Seattle police Monday were called upon to solve the domestic problem of whether William D. Hopkins, 27, is the husband of Mrs. Myrtle McKinley [sic], 39, or her daughter, Ruby, 16.
     Hopkins and the girl were arrested Monday morning in a downtown apartment after a two-day search, instigated by the mother of Ruby.
     Mrs. Hopkins insists that she is the wife of Hopkins. He denies he married her.
     "Ruby and I love each other; we were married Saturday morning," said Hopkins.
     He produced a marriage certificate showing he and Ruby were married Saturday by the Rev. A. E. Greene, formerly pastor of the Emanuel Baptist church, 24th ave. S. and Main st. Mr. and Mrs. Harry Bingston were given as witnesses.
     "Ruby's mother has no legal right to my name," Hopkins declared, after his arrest. "I will admit that we left Wichita, Kan., last December as man and wife and have lived that way since, but everyone, including her friends and relatives, and even Ruby, knew that we were not sent to our marriage," said Hopkins.
     Mrs. Hopkins insisted to Policewoman Sylvia Hunsecker that Hopkins had married her in Wichita last December. She explained to Mrs. Hunsecker her lack of a marriage certificate by saying she had torn it up in a fit of anger against Hopkins.
     Hopkins told The Star his strange story of romance and domestic entanglement.
     "Ruby and her mother came West with me last winter from Wichita, Kan. I told Mrs. Finney that I loved her daughter Ruby and that she loved me and asked for her consent to our marriage.
     "She refused to let us marry. I then offered to take her back to Kansas and wait until Ruby was 18, but she would not hear of it.
     "Saturday, Ruby and I got a marriage license and were married. She gave her age as 19. When we saw in the papers that we had run away we decided to stay and fight it out. We have done nothing wrong and we have a right to be married and to love each other."
     Hopkins was charged with a statutory offense involving the girl. This charge will probably be canceled in the face of the marriage.

The Seattle Star, Seattle, Washington, 17 Aug 1925, p 1

Love Dream Blasted By Policemen
     Love's young dream was blasted Monday when detectives broke in on William B. Hopkins, 28, and Ruby Seidle, 16, his bride of two days, with whom he eloped from her mother's home, 5202 Ballard Ave., Saturday morning. The couple were occupying a suite in an apartment at Seventh Ave. and Madison St.
     Police had been looking for Hopkins and the girl following her mother's action in swearing out a warrant for the man, whom she insists is her husband.
     "There is nothing to that stuff about Mrs. Finney and me being married," Hopkins said from his jail cell, where he is being held while the police and the prosecuting attorney's office determine the nature of a charge to be brought against him after the tangled affairs of the family triangle are investigated. He is held on an open charge, but the prosecutor has a warrant out in which the girl’s mother charges him with contributing the delinquency of a minor.
     "I am not the girl's step-father," Hopkins declared.
     He calls the mother Mrs. Finney, and says she brought him west to Seattle from Wichita, Kan., two months ago in her automobile, knowing full well that there was never a wedding ceremony.
     "It is just jealousy on the mother's part. That story she gave the morning paper is all the bunk."
     Meanwhile the senior Mrs. Hopkins, or Mrs. Finney, as Hopkins speaks of her when talking to newspaper men, is seeking means of putting the young Lochinvar so far behind the bars that he will be years in digging out. Anger showed in every line of her face when she mentioned his name Monday at the police station, but they were lines that softened and curved into a smile when she spoke to her daughter. The girl, 16 and pretty, had stolen the mother's sweetheart and should be punished — still the mother could not find it in her heart to scold. At least not while the two were talking to the detective at headquarters.
     Hopkins and the girl fled at 5 o'clock in the mother's flivver from the mother's home over a small restaurant which the mother had purchased on Ballard Ave. They were married four hours later by Alvah E Greene, 619 Thompson building, a sanipractic physician who holds a license to preach in the Baptist church. The car was found in front of Hopkins' sister's home 712 Fifth Ave.

Seattle Union Record, Seattle, Washington, 17 Aug 1925, p 1, 18 Aug 1925, p 2

Government Investigates Hopkins Case
     Federal authorities began an investigation Wednesday looking toward prosecution under the Mann act of William B. Hopkins, former Wichita, Kan., man, who is held in the city jail here while Mrs. Myrtle Hopkins and her 16-year-old daughter, Ruby, both claim him as husband.
     Women operatives of the department of justice, learning that Hopkins brought the older woman with him across four state boundaries to Seattle, took an interest in the case and began conferring with county authorities Wednesday.
     Meanwhile Ruby, the child-bride of five days, was spirited away by the police. Policewoman Sylvia Hunsicker refused to disclose her whereabouts.
     Charges and counter charges loomed in the tangled love case Wednesday when Hopkins admitted in his cell that he has another wife in the south. He married a Miss Florence Goble in Oklahoma, he said, adding that he believes she obtained a divorce after he came west.
     Deputy Prosecutor Eugene Meacham said Wednesday that if the former marriage had not been legally cancelled, a charge of bigamy would be brought against Hopkins. He was unable, however, to get confirmation of the Oklahoma marriage.
     Charges of lewdness may also be brought against "Mrs. Hopkins," it was hinted, if it develops that she was not the wife of Hopkins when he married Ruby, as the couple was living together.
     The only charge on file against Hopkins at present is that of contributing to delinquency of a minor child, the count for which he was arrested on a warrant sworn to by "Mrs. Hopkins."

Seattle Union Record, Seattle, Washington, 19 Aug 1925, p 15, 20 Aug 1925, p 7

 Notes & Citations

  1. "U.S. Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936–2007" (Ancestry transcript), "Pittman, Ruby Mae, b. Winfield, Kansas, 25 Mar 1909, d. 10 Jun 2003, father Hilton E Sidle, mother Myrtle E Sacket, claim date 4 May 1971. 26 Jul 1982 listed as Ruby Mae Pittman; 04 May 1971 listed as Ruby M Pittman."
  2. "Social Security Death Index" (Ancestry transcript), "Ruby M. Pittman, b. 25 Mar 1909, d. 10 Jun 2003, SSN 498-07-6494 issued MO, residence 74137, Tulsa, Tulsa, Oklahoma."
  3. "Washington Marriage Records 1854–2013" (Ancestry image), "15 Aug 1925, Seattle, King, Washington, William B Hopkins, and Ruby Sidle. By A E Greene, Baptist Minister. Witnesses: Harry Bengston, Mrs H Bengston."
  4. "Texas, Marriage Index, 1824–2019" (Ancestry transcript), "30 Nov 1968, Wichita, Texas, Charle T Pittman, 59 & Ruby M Sidle, 59."
  5. "Texas, Select County Marriage Records, 1837–1965" (Ancestry transcript), "30 Nov 1968, Wichita, Texas, Charles Truett Pittman & Ruby Mae Hopkins."
  6. Find a Grave.
  7. "Texas, Death Certificates, 1903-1982" (Ancestry image), "Hopkins, William Ben, d. Wichita Falls, Wichita, Texas, 2 Feb 1960, retired insurance salesman, Reserve Life Ins Co, WWI veteran, b. Ellis, Texas, 23 Dec 1896, father J C Hopkins, mother Levina B McBride, informant Mrs Ruby Hopkins, cause blood loss due to esophageal ulcer, bur. Hope Cemetery, Henrietta, Texas, 4 Feb 1960."
  8. 1910 United States Federal Census, Roll T624_436FHL Film 1374449, p 7a, Enumeration District 0070
    1521 East Eleventh Avenue, Winfield Ward 2, Cowley, Kansas
    Sackett, John H, head, 61, m2, own income, b. IL, father b. USA, mother b. USA, home owned, house
    Sackett, Cordelia, wife, 58, m1, 9 ch. 9 living, b. KY, father b. VA, mother b. VA
    Sackett, Mary E, daughter, 30, laborer, b. KS, father b. IL, mother b. KY
    Sackett, Laura B, daughter, 28, laborer, b. KS, father b. IL, mother b. KY
    Sackett, Bessie E, daughter, 23, laborer, b. KS, father b. IL, mother b. KY
    Sackett [sic: Sidle], Myrtle E, daughter, 19, m1, 1 ch. 1 living, b. KS, father b. IL, mother b. KY
    Sidle [sic: Sackett], Bertha C, daughter, 15, b. KS, father b. IL, mother b. KY
    Sidle, Ruby M, granddaughter, 1, b. KS, father b. KS, mother b. KS
    Sidle, Hilton, son-in-law, 19, driver, b. KS, father b. KS, mother b. OH.
  9. 1920 United States Federal Census, Roll T625_528, p 18A, Enumeration District 73
    East 10th Avenue, Winfield Ward 1, Cowley, Kansas
    Finney, Ora F, head, 29, occ. "none", b. KS, father b. IL, mother b. KY, home rented
    Finney, Myrtle E, wife, 28, b. KS, father b. IL, mother b. KS
    Sidle, Ruby, stepdaughter, 10, b. KS, father b. KS, mother b. KS.
  10. 1930 United States Federal Census, FHL Film 2341646, p 17A, Enumeration District 0008
    202 1/2 West Harrison, Guthrie, Logan, Oklahoma
    Hopkins, W B, lodger, 34, m. at 29, chef, cafe, b. TX, father b. US, mother b. US
    Hopkins, Ruby Mae, lodger, 21, m. at 16, b. KS, father b. US, mother b. KS
    Hopkins, Norma Jean, lodger, 1, b. OK, father b. TX, mother b. KS.
    [In household of Hattie Smith]
  11. 1940 United States Federal Census, Roll m-t0627-02150, p 61B, Enumeration District 95-149
    7221 Southwest, Maplewood, St Louis, Missouri
    Hopkins, William, head, 42, supervising clerk, NPA Highway Construction, b. TX
    Hopkins, Ruby, wife, 31, b. KS
    Hopkins, Norma, daughter, 11, b. OK
    Hopkins, Estelle, daughter, 9, b. OK.
    [Family living in Webster Grove in 1935]
Sackett line6th great-granddaughter of John Sackett of New Haven
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